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From Whence We Came

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Learn about the brave people who have struggled throughout history for the freedoms we have and the equality we aspire to. They deserve our profound respect, admiration and preservation of their legacy.

Marsha Johnson:

The Stonewall Riot of 1969, in which a late-night raid of a prominent New York City gay bar devolved into a violent struggle between patrons and police, is largely seen as the driving event behind the gay rights movement. Today Stonewall is recognized as a national monument, but the names of many of the men and women who led the unrest are still missing from history books. Marsha P. Johnson, a trans woman from New Jersey, was on the front lines that night according to eyewitness accounts. After she helped spark a national resistance, Johnson continued to support LGBT communities during the AIDS crisis. 

Leonard Matlovich: Leonard Matlovich wasn’t the first gay man to serve in the military, but he may have been the first to come out on such a public platform. For most of his life, including his years spent in Vietnam, Matlovich kept his true sexuality a secret from the world. Then in 1975, he decided to come out to his superiors. An interview with The New York Times soon followed, and then a famous appearance on the cover of TIME magazine that displayed his portrait above the words “I Am a Homosexual.” The story attracted plenty of backlash, but it also initiated a conversation many people were hesitant to have at the time. Matlovich’s admission eventually led to his discharge from the Air Force, where he had continued to serve as a race relations counselor after returning to the States. He died of complications from AIDS at age 44, and his gravestone in Washington D.C.’s Congressional Cemetery reads: “When I was in the military they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one.”

Richard Isay: Even after the American Psychiatric Association declassified homosexuality as an illness in 1973, the stigma persisted in the medical community. Gay patients were often approached as sick individuals who needed to be cured. According to his obituary in The New York Times, Dr. Richard Isay was one of the first prominent psychiatrists/psychoanalysts to encourage his gay patients to accept themselves rather than deny their feelings. Isay, a gay man himself, was already an established mental health professional when he came out of the closet. He was ostracized by his colleagues, but he continued to present his then-radical notions about homosexuality at meetings and in his writings nonetheless. Attitudes shifted in 1992, when Isay teamed up with the American Civil Liberties Union to threaten the American Psychoanalytic Association with a discrimination lawsuit. The APA agreed to start treating analysts the same regardless of their sexuality and to promote education on the subject within the network.

Laverne Cox: Laverne Cox has already made history several times throughout her career. In 2014, her role on Orange is the New Black earned her the first Emmy nomination for an openly trans actor, and in 2017 she became the first transgender regular to play a trans character on broadcast TV with CBS’s Doubt. When she isn’t blazing trails as an actor, she’s working off-screen to bolster LGBT rights as a film producer and motivational speaker.

Harvey Milk: Nearly 40 years after his assassination, Harvey Milk remains one of the most well-known figures of the gay rights movement. He rose to prominence in the late 1970s when he became California’s first openly gay person elected to public office. As a community leader in San Francisco, Milk supported the rights of gay teachers, sponsored anti-discrimination legislation, and fostered LGBT-run businesses. In 2009, his nephew Stuart Milk founded the Harvey Milk Foundation to continue his fight for equality.

Aaron Fricke: In spring of 1980, Aaron Fricke looked forward to attending prom with the rest of his classmates at Cumberland High in Rhode Island. But unlike his peers, Fricke hoped to go with a date of the same gender. Once the principal caught wind of the plan he made his stance clear: No same-sex couples would be allowed into the event. Fricke challenged his school in court and won the right to attend prom with his male date—the judge even required his school to provide enough security to keep them safe from harassment. Fricke v. Lynch is now considered a landmark case in the fight for LGBT student rights.

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Adam & Steve

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According to the book, God made Adam & Eve, but things really started popping when Steve came to the Garden.

Take some time to enjoy nature and visit a Botanical Garden at low traffic hours or virtually! Botanical Gardens around the world are offering virtual tours of their most jaw-dropping plants and flowers after the Spring bloom. 

United States Botanical Garden

Kew Garden, Richmond, England

Claude Monet’s Garden, Giverny, France

The Gardens at Waddesdon Manor, Waddesdon, England

RHS Garden Wisley, Surrey, England

Chicago Botanic Garden, Chicago, Illinois

Keukenhof, Amsterdam, Holland

 

Inspired? Plant your own garden (or just start with a couple of plants).

 

Shake It ’til You Make It

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Virtual cocktail parties are the newest way to celebrate just about anything. Learn to make some fancy new drinks and Zoom with friends. From New Orleans’ famous “Hurricanes” to the “Cosmos” of Sex in the City, you can pick a theme and celebrate with your Zoom pals. You can even watch movies with screen sharing or group binge watch your favorite TV shows.

Bartending lessons are a click away and so are all the awesome bar tools.

It’s a hobby with the most fun words. Shaker, Jigger and Twist sound like an awesome name for your new bar. Cocktail anyone? Before you know it your friends will be saying, “I’ll have what she’s having”

Bum Wrap

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Sharing Spa Days with your partner are pampering, rejuvenating and create a great level of intimacy. If you aren’t comfortable going to a spa just yet (or if they’re still closed where you live), there are tons of treatments you can do at home for each other that will set the scene for a very steamy night! Grab some candles and start rubbing!

 

Rejuvenating Body Scrub:

Make Your Own:  For a nourishing body scrub, mix together some brown sugar and olive oil, using roughly double the amount of brown sugar as oil. You can also add in some manuka honey, which is beneficial for both dry and acne-prone skin types, and some lemon or orange essential oil for an uplifting scent. Use the scrub in the shower, rubbing in circular motions over the body and paying attention to rough spots such as the elbows.

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Steam Facial:

Steaming your face is a good way to cleanse your pores, helping to promote clear and glowing skin. For a steam treatment at home, fill a bowl with boiled water and leave to cool slightly so that it is not hot enough to burn your skin. Add a couple of drops of essential oils, such as tea tree oil for acne-prone skin, lavender oil for oily skin or rose absolute oil for dry skin. Steam your face for a few minutes by leaning over the bowl with a towel covering your head to trap the steam. You can follow a steam treatment with a purifying clay mask or simply some toner and moisturizer.

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Facial Mask: Clark’s Botanicals

Milk Bath

Take a leaf out of Cleopatra’s book and relax in a cleansing and nourishing milk bath. The lactic acid in milk will soften your skin, and milk baths can also be soothing for those with eczema or psoriasis. Add a few cups of whole milk or some milk powder to your bathwater, mix in some essential oils and honey (optional) then float rose petals on top for a luxurious and indulgent treat.

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Aromatherapy Shower

While baths are perfect for relaxing, if you don’t have access to one or aren’t much of a bath person, you can still create a spa-like experience for your shower. Choose a relaxing essential oil such as lavender or an uplifting oil such as neroli and add a few drops to a damp flannel or sponge. Place this on the floor in front of you as you shower to allow the steam to release the scents.

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SpaFinder

SpaFinder: Find a spa near you, buy gift certificates and get create advice and tips. For a limited time, get 10% off when you spend $50 or more!

Polling Station

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Let’s make sure that we a 100% ready to vote!

In 2016, 92 million eligible voters didn’t vote. 

We aren’t going to lecture you (that’s not what we’re about). But here’s a gentle reminder: we’ve seen first hand the difference in compassionate and inclusive leadership versus, well, the opposite of that. Regardless of the personal feelings of any elected official, the core of their agenda is based on the voices of those who elected them.

  • Elected officials put the judges in place who provided protection for the first gay magazine in 1958.
  • Elected officials decriminalized homosexuality in the ’60’s.
  • Elected officials instituted “Don’t ask, don’t tell”. 
  • Elected officials listened to voters and blazed a trail for marriage equality.
  • Elected officials listened to voters and made fundamental change in health care.
  • Elected officials are listening to their voters and trying to legislate how we use the bathroom. 

Make sure that what is important to you is heard so that the elected leaders are your elected leaders and reflect the values that are important to you. The only way to make sure that happens is to VOTE. 

Vote.org has everything you need…make sure you’re registered (and get registered if you’re not!). Find your polling place, request an absentee ballot and find links to the voting information for every state. Once that’s done make sure everyone you know does the same.

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