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Whether it’s an impromptu photo shoot, or something the two of you have planned out, photographing each other can be a very sensual and erotic experience. On the other hand, despite what you might have seen on Instagram, not everyone is completely comfortable in front of the camera. To offset this issue, Photo shoots can be done in very low light, pillows can be placed in primary areas of concern and there’s also no rule that says any or all of the “models” clothes need to be removed. As a matter of fact the photo shoot can just be the two of you making faces or being silly. It’s all up to the two of you to decide. As long as no one is uncomfortable the two of you will be having fun in a Flash. That being said, if you both decide you’re up for some boudoir shots you can really make this a special occasion by paying attention to staging the area and creating special lighting to enhance the atmosphere. Costume and prop shopping can really build the excitement and anticipation.
There are many ways to approach this type of photography that also addresses the comfort level of your model. As an icebreaker you can light your model from behind so that the camera will only capture the outside edges of the model’s body. You can also hang a sheet in the doorway with a light behind it. The model poses between the light and the sheet but on the other side of the sheet from the photographer. That way your model’s image is completely protected from the camera as it will only record a sexy silhouette.
Ideas for photo shoots can run from flirty too dirty and everything in between but having some props or food helps get the ball rolling. Think Strawberries and  whipped cream rather than celery and cans of beans.
If the two of you decide that you want to take these photos but make sure that they are never seen by anyone else then consider getting a Polaroid camera and agreeing to destroy the photos at the end of the evening.
General rule of thumb however is to keep it frisky not risky. There’s no need to take a photo that would send your father to the emergency room or get you fired from your job.

You might think this idea is half baked but think for a moment and take the full measure of this delicious activity. We are not simply suggesting that you bake cookies for your partner although that’s certainly a lovely idea. We are suggesting that the two of you take to the sheets. Baking sheets that is.

Think of all the dough you and your partner can save just by spending a romantic night at home making something warm and gooey.

Cookie recipes have very few ingredients and the mixing and baking can be light-hearted and playful. You can create cookies for each other in the shape of hearts, puckered lips or any other of your favorite body parts. You can even write messages with chocolate chips sprinkles or icing.
Just a quick warning: cookies only take 10 to 15 minutes to bake so if the delicious smell that fills the air makes you start to feel amorous, you’re going to have to be quick about it. The good news is, if you’ve been together for a while, that’s probably twice as much time as you’ll need anyway. Our advice is to wait until the cookies are out of the oven that way you can enjoy nibbling on the cookies before you nibble on each other. What batter way to work off those calories?